Frequently Asked Questions2016-12-16T08:51:57+00:00

Frequently Asked Questions

Can my child search for me someday if they choose to do so?2016-11-26T10:48:47+00:00

Yes. In the State of Virginia a child can search for their birth parents once they reach the age of 18. It is important that you keep your contact information current with Catholic Charities so that we can contact you at that time.

Can I write a letter to my child?2016-11-26T10:48:06+00:00

A letter is something that could be beneficial to your child. It is a way to let your child know what you were feeling during your pregnancy and the reason you make a plan of adoption. This is something that adoptive families treasure having from you for the child.

How can I be sure that my child will be well cared for?2016-11-26T10:46:48+00:00

There are standards that every adoptive family must meet which are set by both Catholic Charities and the State of Virginia. Families are thoroughly assessed before being approved for adoption and a counselor will make visits to the adoptive family after placement to ensure your child’s well being.

How much will my child know about me?2016-11-26T10:46:07+00:00

You will be asked to provide a social/medical history for the child. Depending on the type of adoption plan you choose the information given to the adoptive family will vary from non-identifying to identifying. This information will be provided to the child at age appropriate intervals.

Does the birth father need to be notified that I am pregnant and considering making an adoption plan?2016-11-26T10:45:21+00:00

Each situation is unique. This can be discussed with your counselor who will work with you in deciding how to properly address the birth father’s rights.

How will I feel after I place my child for adoption?2016-11-26T10:43:59+00:00

Experiences and emotions vary from parent to parent, but placing a child for adoption is never an easy decision for anyone. These emotions can vary from grief, loss, and sadness in placing your child for adoption to joy, contentment, and happiness at seeing your child with their adoptive family.

What if I change my mind after my baby is born?2016-11-26T10:43:15+00:00

Even after months of certainty and preparing, once your baby is born, you might change your mind. In Virginia the law allows between 7 and 10 days to revoke your decision depending on the age of the child.

Do I have to be Catholic to contact Catholic Charities?2016-11-26T10:42:33+00:00

No, at Catholic Charities we work with individuals from various ages, religions, and ethnic groups.

If I am undecided about adoption can I still contact Catholic Charities?2016-11-26T10:41:46+00:00

At Catholic Charities you do not have to worry that you will be pressured to choose adoption. Our counselors are committed to helping you figure out what is right for you and giving you the support you need to make the decision that is right for you.

What is the role of an adoption agency?2016-11-26T10:40:58+00:00

Agencies are staffed with ethical, knowledgeable professionals who bring expertise to adoption counseling and support. Agencies offer free support services and counseling to you before, during, and after an adoption decision is made.

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